I think I'm onto something. I asked my host what the server IP is, and I tried using it instead of localhost or 127.0.0.1
Got a new error:
L 03/05/2013 - 00:07:12: [store/store-logging.smx] Connection to SQL database has failed, Reason: [1045]: Access denied for user 'abrandnewday'@'ip address here' (using password: YES)