im not sure, but i did find the problem.
my displaydeathstats displays damage and kills EVERY time a person causing lag spikes every time multiple people died due to respawn stats rank and deaths posting.
Thus i shut off displaydeathstats and statsme, but leaving on enableranks and fixed my lagspiking.
however. here is what i see in hlsw watching my 32 man deathmatch server running on dual xeon 3 gig
17:40:48 "opticle<140><STEAM_0:1:548773><TERRORIST >" killed "ThE SimPsons Da la da la da da <115><STEAM_0:1:6996570><CT>" with "sg552"
17:40:48 [CSSDM] Deleting ragdoll 03344380
17:40:48 [CSSDM] Deleting ragdoll 03C790F8
17:40:49 "+-{ Chimera }-+ (HITMAN) clnles<106><STEAM_0:0:4477943><CT>" killed "MaDDoG<155><STEAM_0:1:5165008><TERRORIST >" with "m249"
17:40:49 [CSSDM] Deleting ragdoll 050E4A20
17:40:49 "Polo<129><STEAM_0:0:5911109><CT>" killed "AgentIndica<158><STEAM_0:0:8522437><TERRORIS T>" with "aug" (headshot)
17:40:50 [CSSDM] Deleting ragdoll 03C790F8
17:40:50 "jIbOuNeT<101><STEAM_0:1
506626><CT>" killed "Nosferatu™<91><STEAM_0:1:2739798><TERRORIS T>" with "m4a1"
17:40:50 [CSSDM] Deleting ragdoll 050E4A20
17:40:51 "+-{ Chimera }-+ (HITMAN) clnles<106><STEAM_0:0:4477943><CT>" killed "MP5<161><STEAM_0:0:5145926><TERRORIST>" with "m249"
17:40:52 [CSSDM] Deleting ragdoll 03C790F8
17:40:52 "IAGO<133><STEAM_0:1:4423808><CT>" killed "opticle<140><STEAM_0:1:548773><TERRORIST >" with "m4a1"
17:40:52 "Cyax<86><STEAM_0:1:6354442><CT>" killed "Googaloo<109><STEAM_0:0:4016790><TERRORI ST>" with "ak47"
17:40:52 [CSSDM] Deleting ragdoll 050E4A20
17:40:52 [CSSDM] Deleting ragdoll 05396038