no.. he doesnt connect like that.. sorry.. i must of confused you guys..
when he goes into his steam friends list he clicks on my name and he clicks "join game" usually that takes you to the server that person is playing on but it says "Server not responding for him. and he cant find it in the server list..
where as the friend who can connect can find it in the server list and can connect with no problems.
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