Ok, add
www.crocweb.com to the blacklist. They now block all UDP traffic due to DDOS attacks.
Site5 should be on the VPS list now, not shared....I just asked their support and they said they will only open ports on managed or unmanaged VPS accounts.
3ix.org will only open port 3306 -- this SHOULD be all that's needed, correct? My last host, I seemed to have to have the client ports open as well.....27015, etc....